thoughts 4 the pass few dae!!

wohho.. haha.. once again happi mothers dae.. to all mothers in the world.. hehe.. it been like 4 dae.. since i last blogged.. haiz.. actualli lots of things happen within that 4 daes.. lots of thoughts and guess wat.. my most dear gal whu accompanied in mi for more than 4 yrs.. met with a real storm and darkness and hopelessness for a dae.. luckily it was jus a dae.. and i am so glad to see her strong again.. guess.. she is realli strong to stand up once again after a setback.. it jus easier said then done.. but i admire her to have the courage after all our encouragment and motivation.. and one greatest things is .. haha she gets back all her friends now.. friends whome actualli cared for her since the start but due to sum reason they were distant.. now they are all back to her.. all becos sumone.. walks out of her life.. think must thank that sum one if nt i guess.. she will nv feel so fortunate as she is now.. haha.. aniway.. this incident realli makes mi ponder.. y must that person.., A wanna hampers his own image.. now utterly disappointed with him.. all the while u been so caring and nice towards her.. how can u change jus like in a split moment.. even on that dae.. ur can be so loving till the min when ur declared separation.. y?? all the good deeds u did.. actualli is being removed jus becos of ya action and sppech after that moment.. how can u bear to broke a ger heart whu actualli accompanied u all the while throughout most of the thing..?? sum times realli wondering of the proverb.. ren xing nan che.. haiz.. wat makes us most disapoointed was.. u actualli mention u wished to be back with ya... ex.. pls lo..she is nv gonna be urs.. i am jus this direct.. whu will go back to a life whereby sumone actualli step in and hurt her in the past.. whu will wan to get hurt again?? whu can gurantee nothing like this will happen?? at a min.. u sae u love HeR.. at another min.. u sae u wanna B back.. when u noe she can actualli lead a happier life w/o u.. sumtime realli wonder if u still have ya pride..ppl do have lo.. think this time u may have made the wrong decision for ya self.. in the end.. u achieved nothing but for the two gurls u hurt, they became stronger... and wiser.. they get on a new life..realli hope ya can think thru it and achieved wat ya realli wan.. all ay action realli demolished ya good image i still have in u in the past.. though there was sum misundertaning with ur,, but times and agin i telll my self.. i believed in wat i see.. and time u have shown to be a realli caring and nice guy.. but realli wonder wat make u cahnge ya mind andd action at that momment u simply became a differnet man..haiz...hopefull u dun disturb her again.. let her lead her own fruitful life ba..if ya wanna find a companion.. she is ours already!!

FriendsShip
mabbi ur must be wondering and puzzled wat i hav entered in my firat paragraph.. is actualli.. a msg i jus wann let the person noe.. all the action he did.. on surface may seem hurt a person but invitably it makes the victim brave herself again... amkes her into a more wiser person.. all becos of friends whu had been ard her this few dae.. there is nv a time she will feel lonely.. haha thing all i wanna conclude is.. friends are ppl we did foolish things, the people whome will look us up to encourage the moment they noe sumthing bad happens to their friends.. a friend is sumone whu will make sure u are safe and sound every min, making sure u will nt shed tears for ppl whu do nt derserve, doing everthing together with u.. and.. this incident realli make my dear ger get back those frend she had sdistant wif ever since that man walks into her life.. mabbi must thank him too. make her realise that there are friends all ard her caring for her...
" True love realationship should be somthing we get to learn from one another, spirtually and emotionally supporting ne another, a pillar for thoughts and we get to grow in it, it should nt be sumting we shut ourselves out form the outside world and indulge ourselves in our own lil love realationship and both parties dun grow from it.. they are only pphysically present"...

Yea and a BIg thank you to wenqing and big huiing from NRPSD... haha.. for all the encouragement ya given her w/o i guess she will nt get out of the darkenss so soon and once again brace up herself.. thank sisters.. u rox.. haha realli glad ur r the person she turns to when she encountered this incident.. that wat sisterhood campaign is for.. isn't it?? haha..